Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Dear Husband:


Thank you for being there for me. even in the middle of the night when I cant sleep..and, of course, you can


Thank you for making me tea when you know I need it. even when i dont ask


Thank you for the thai food, and the ice cream, and the movie


Thank you for protecting me from Rocko when he feels like sitting in my lap. Considering we weigh about the same, I dont think that would turn out too well


Thank you for being so encouraging. all. the. time


Thank you for believing in me


Thank you for big hugs and forhead kisses

Thank you for your love.

I love you

And your face

Always-always

-Wife

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Oh, to finally be a Holder



so im gonna try to write about the wedding and such but my head is killing me so ..if i sound like a retard..im gonna blame it on that:)





so I've made two realizations this morning

Being married= awesome


Being married while in Florida =super fantastically extra awesome (sigh...)




Being in "Real Land"( thanks Jon) not so awesome..




but seriously. I like my husband, hes kinda neat:) It's so fun to hang out with your best friend all the time! I think I could get used to this ;)



wedding stuff.... uhhh.lets go event by event


Rehearsal:
not as awkward as I thought!! I was always afraid that my wedding rehearsal would just be the most horrible awkward experience of my life and then I would be terrified of the actual event. But that afternoon was far from awkward.. I mean yes there were a few moments of ..seriously..but they weren't any fault of ours:) brush it off.... yeah.


I think our lack of awkward and overabundance of awesome- in general- was in large part thanks to Simon. He was freakin awesome. A stuffy officiant just wouldn't do for us. Simon fit perfectly.



Reherasal Dinner:
Oh what can I say. Magical. I loved every minute of it! the food was fantastic, the hosts were incredible and the music..sigh:)





This was my favorite moment of the entire night- oh, Moon River...:) Thanks Christy!!!! that was an amazing gift!!



another favorite is being presented with a GORGEOUS quilt made by Elliots grandmother- its sooo beautiful we were really excited! I dont have pictures of that yet..they're stuck on flikr and sadly I'm not allowed to use flikr while at work..silly coorporates:)



Ceremony:

The ceremony was absolutely perfect. no questions, hands down. from halfway tripping all the way down the aisle, to getting to threaten El with a lightsaber. Just amazing, I had so much fun! it wasn't scary or awkward at all..it was sweet and hillarious and ..us. Simon made it so personal , there was no pressure at all:D
Plus I had the coolest chauffer ever! yeah, its ok to be jealous ;)


in between:

Wedding Dress+Tbird+Sonic Happy Hour + New Husband= total and complete bliss :D



you can laugh if you want, but what else would i want to do after getting married? go to sonic of course! sadly we have no pictures of this..because they were taking with El's phone..which died ...but thats another story :)






Reception:
very fun, very tiring, it was awesome to see everyone- and to see them dancing ;) I however tried to not..dance.. too much..because it scares people..and makes me look quite silly







and the worst thing that happened all day was the cake..it died on the way to the reception so we got a styrofoam cake instead :P no big deal though- i didnt even really eat any of it anyway!! :D






Post party party:



After all the craziness and being driven away in an amazing car by a very hansome chauffer (;)) we ended up back at the house for some leftovers, amazing wine, and family time :) it was really fun and a great way to end the day.




I love my new family!! they're all incredible!

Seriously, our families did so much for us the past few months, we are so grateful- I can't thank them enough for all the hard work and love they put into this!! we're so not worth it ;)

ok back to work..

Love, love

- Cassie Holder





Tuesday, April 28, 2009

a weekend in pictures


















I really want eggy in a basket. like more than vegitables or chocolate or a basil roma from common grounds.. V for Vendetta ALWAYS makes me long for eggy in a basket..in a bad way...

maybe i'll go home at lunch and make it..


but probably not :P


This weekend we weent antique shopping. it was really fun and oddly relaxing :) I can't wait to finish decorating the apartment :) we're going to make it really clean and creative and personal..I'm really looking forward to it and to see what we come up with!


life is good. love is great. may is BUSY!
i get my hairs cut this week
star trek next week- and mothers day!!
graduation, shower, and a musical the next week
skip a week..
shower,bike ride, ball game, and singing the next week..
plus all the rest of the wedding planning in between!
*sigh* im exhausted..


its all worth it..plus I'm going to see this 70 year old man sing and shake it on stage in a couple of weeks


Monday, April 13, 2009

Well folks, its monday!

Ok..I have a confession to make


I..am a "people-watcher"


I know! I can't help it though. I constantly catch myself watching other people..and embarassingly enough..when I dont catch myself, Elliot kindly points it out with a gentle( stop staring!) I don't mean to be rude! Its just..so fascinating to watch another person..see how they react to things and to watch their different mannerisms. I try to think about how they might be feeling..what they might be thinking..which is honestly a little overwhelming.


Think about it...think about all the thoughts going through your head in a single minute..especially if you're anything like me. It's like a mad house up there sometime! and its easy to get caught up in whats going on in your own head, but to put yourself in someone elses shoes..to think about their situations, their life..it may be equally as maddening!


none of that made any sense. I know. Sorry.


my new obsession is reading blogs. Thats like..a free ticket to whats going on with other people. next time you read a blog..a newspaper or magazine article..try thinking about ..what that person might have been thinking as they wrote that..its a good perspective exercise and a good way to empathize with someone.


blah blah blah. rambling is fun




In other news..I have exactly 2 months we do the whole..marriage thing;) life is so crazy ..it seriously moves so fast i can't keep up! I'm learing to go with it though and with the help of my fiance..I'm learning to not take things so seriously..and just..let it fall into place...change is ok..it happens..its not always bad( its usually good!!!) and as long as I keep trying to let go and let God handle things..everything will be awesome. (!!)


and i would just like to say..movies like "my fake fiance" make me sick. Lets promote the idea that getting married for stuff and then getting a divorce is TOTALLY OK!! seriously? How is that ok? I mean..I'm sure they end up falling in love and living happily ever after. not the point. Highly unlikely. very silly. a little insulting.